“A chip off the old block” is usually a good thing. A child is following his or her parent in a gift for singing, or a quality of generosity, or an interest in electricity. People generally quote that saying with a proud smile.

In the book of Ezekiel we see another saying about parents and children that brings out a negative side of the relationship, that “leaves a bad taste in their mouth” we could say.

“What do you people mean by quoting this proverb about the land of Israel:

“‘The parents eat sour grapes,
    and the children’s teeth are set on edge’ (Ezekiel 18:2)

The people of Israel were reaping the consequences of many years of turning away from God through defeat and exile in the country of Babylon. They were understandably upset by this time of losing their homeland and having to live as captives in another country. Those are the “sour grapes.”

A big part of the problem, though, with the Israelites quoting the proverb is that they seem to be using it as an excuse, or a way to get out of their own responsibility. “It’s our parents who caused this problem. It’s not our fault, but our ‘teeth are set on edge’ now too.” Meaning their teeth were suffering the sourness of the exile as well.

God’s response is that he treats everyone as an individual. Each person has his or her own life before God.

Are there any bad habits or customs that you’re repeating from your past experiences or upbringing? God doesn’t allow us to place the blame on our parents or anyone else. There’s no need to continue eating the same sour grapes. God lays on us the responsibility of our own spiritual lives. And at the same time he gives us the wonderful and amazing liberty of his grace to repent and find new life in his Son Jesus.

Let’s leave the sour grapes in the past, and look forward to the freedom of Christ’s renewal for us and in us!

After a football game this past weekend, one of the main players contributing to his team’s victory said more than once in the interview, “I’m so thankful for this opportunity. I just didn’t want to let my teammates down. I just didn’t want to let my teammates down.”

Especially when it comes to people we care about, we hate the thought of causing them sadness, offending them, or inconveniencing them in any way.

The Holy Spirit does a great and amazing work in us that only God can do. He turns our rebellious natural heart into a heart of faith and love for the Lord. And then he watches all those he has converted to see how they are living in their spiritual lives.

And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. (Ephesians 4:30)

These are the things that make the Spirit sad, make the Spirit grieve, even offend the Spirit of God. Bitterness. Rage. Anger. Brawling. Slander. Every form of malice. As people who have been sealed by the Spirit for eternity, we want to get rid of all those things so we don’t let him down.

Now, of course, that’s a warning. The law. “The Spirit is watching. Don’t grieve the Spirit.” Our true gospel driver for kindness, forgiveness and compassion is the loving, fragrant sacrifice of Jesus for us all.

1 Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children 2 and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God. (Ephesians 5:1-2)

I remember the first time I heard the phrase “aha moment” was years ago in Milwaukee. (I may have been behind the times because apparently the phrase has been around since at least 1931). We were in a presentation about kids’ behavior in school, and the presenter talked about “aha moments” in understanding better what was behind “difficult” kids’ actions and reactions in class. Much of it had to do with biological responses in children who unfortunately did not have the benefit of safety, care or good nutrition in their home. There were some “aha moments” for all of us who were there, and the stories we heard had a big impact on us.

Jesus came to have a big impact on the world with his teaching, and he often used parables. Stories. And particularly stories we could relate to in order to let us in on how things work in God’s kingdom.

As we read and hear the parables our minds and hearts are opened by the Spirit to understand life in a different way. Often they amaze us and give us an “aha!” response. Parables turn our perspectives upside down because God’s message is totally different than the messages of the world.

Over the next four Sundays we’ll ask Jesus to “tell us a story.” Each parable will cover one of the important topics of generosity, sincerity, patience, and rejection. Come and join us in worship for some of your own “aha moments” with your Savior!